We would like to tell a few stories about the release. First, we have a friend who works in a zoo, recently told us of the hornbills. They are very exotic birds, which come from tropical forests in Thailand, Malaysia, India and Africa. Hornbills are very interesting because they monogamous relationships that last for life. The main reason is that the reproductive needs of the female hornbill hornbill male to trust her for 4 ½ months during the feedIncubation for their eggs. Before mating, he offers her a gift of life (an insect or a fruit). The nest is usually made in a tree hole. In fact, sludge in it! She closes her nest, complete with mud and dung and leaves, only so much space for their partner to their food through the hole in the time it is given in the nest. Can you imagine that Mr. Hornbill bring up to 24,000 fruit for women Hornbill can throughout the period of nesting? Wow!
After 4 ½ monthsWomen Hornbill tears over the dirt around their apartment and appeared to present with their young to Mr. Hornbill. Now that's sharing! There are many other animals that depend on and share with each other to keep that part of the species alive, but the hornbills can participate in the ultimate, because they are believed to birds with the highest incidence of cooperative breeding.
The life of the hornbill is a wonderful story to tell your children because it helps them see that even in nature,Trust and sharing is such an important way of life. In addition to the absolute basic necessities of life such as food, warmth and sleep, there is nothing more important than our interaction with other people. When we get to share it all, and truly understand, the sharing process, maybe we can get some of the terrible things that could go to avoid in the world.
We all know about the release. We know that we made when others share. We know that sharing makes us feel good. We know how specialwe feel when our spouse or partner share in the upbringing of children. So why in the world do not we share more than we are?
It can be easy to share things that we care about or have not used a lot already, but what if someone needs to share something really really want, and you do it? What about sharing personal stories and secrets that could embarrass us? Some parents believe that they and their children stories that are embarrassing, they should contactOthers tell their children everything. We ask that) the disclosure of TMI (too much information. We think it's an important balance to be dealt with when it comes to sharing thoughts and ideas must. If your child can really learn something from what you want to share, and it is not your child in bed at night, lying awake on the secrets of the past with his family, it's probably a good idea to worry him in the lurch or in some questions of the family. It is also constructive, let yourChild know that you have overcome some of the weaknesses, or that have accepted you, or have to be done.
A large part of sharing is trust. We need to trust that the other person is unreasonable and not judge us. We tend to share more when we feel safe. (Hence the history of the hornbills.) We share something of value if we believe that the person that we share, with respect and appreciation of the position as we are. We want a good feeling when we share. It's never fun to give somethingsomeone and then they only see you throw them aside as if it were easily available. But with children, we never know until we teach them what we value value.
Have you ever thought that your children something special, which was given you? They estimated it, and you want them to appreciate it. After initially receiving the item, they seem to appreciate the way you want, but that it later when you ask, can it be that they have lost them, or even lost. Thiscan not be, because they do not value it, it can be due to the fact that they are too young to know how to protect them or they are forgetful and organizationally challenged, and later may end the feeling of shame for their behavior.
When we share with our children stories, can not yet exclude the same problem. We share something, hear something very important to us, and we share them with someone in a way that the light which makes it more or minimized the importance for us. You may not have heardwhat we have said clearly and tell it to someone else without the facts straight. It is a fine line on the sharing in a manner in which one is valued shares, as you want it to appreciate it.
The age of a child is important, if these decisions. Children may not be developmentally ready to share and continue to be self-centered to a certain age. For example, an infant mental approach is everything, "Mine!" Preschool children begin to understand intellectually about sharing, but itis usually not until the age of 7 years that a child really learns to share. This was investigated by Ernst Fehr at the University of Zurich, as his studies showed that the age of 7-8 of equality and altruism has become important to children and they are more willing to share. He confirmed that the capacity for shared use matures along with her body.
No matter what time it is important to share, to teach the common usage. If the parents do not share their feelings with their correspondingChildren, either to burden them with too many of their feelings or by the majority of things to benefit themselves (and thus the balance we) have already mentioned, it is not their children about the positive role modeling. Children may also be afraid to share with their parents because their parents have reacted in a negative way, and now they are careful to share with them in the future. You can respond like their parents, when her new feelings and experiences anxietyAdolescents. It is true that young people begin to development, the separation at this age, and they do not want to share their private feelings with their parents. But it is also very important to open the path to where they and their parents, want to check what they do. You can fear, and the parents must make it clear that they have heard and what to tell their children respectfully, even if they disagree.
We can help our children understand thatabout sharing in the big picture by reading children's books where animals and children share. This way children are more ready to read the stories of other cultures where they can see a process of give and take with other people and other animals in the world. The lessons that both other cultures and birds/animals can teach us are invaluable. Helping others can be its own reward, and in fact this is confirmed by many biologists and scientists. Selfless acts give us a warm glow inside and this is confirmed by personal experience as well as neurological studies that show that the sharing and altruism may Activity in parts of the brain that are involved in feelings of reward.
Let your children know that even monkeys, when shares can be chuffed with their friends. At the Yerkes National Primate Research Center, Frans de Waal's team of scientists has examined the selfless side of the brown capuchin monkeys. De Waal put the Capuchins by three blocks of ten trials, and evenin the first sentence, they were not) rather than the token select (sweets that the other monkeys benefited. Each monkey was a choice between two different colored marks. Both would earn a lucrative slice of apple, but only one make a play for a second monkey is sitting in an adjacent room would be transparent net.
By the end of the experiment, they were the choice of "prosocial" tokens around two thirds of the time. The study shows that people like thisTo show monkeys usually its strongest level of empathy towards their closest friends and family. They were most likely the prosocial token when picking the other monkey a blood relative. They were also willing to help, independent members of the same group, but not when it came to independent foreign.
Here are some tips to help your children develop to share the gift of:
1. Help them a book with pictures and thoughts to them personally, but they could createlike to share with others. You can book other show in the family, and they allow members of the family ask if they want something, share the book with others, add it to the show.
2. Sharing memories is an effective way to discuss what it is to talk stocks. Keep home a book with blank pages on one or has the kitchen table. If something happens, something funny or tragic, they can write about what happened. When they later have written what they read,they can have their feelings about each event.
3. Keep a journal of the most important things that your kids do or say when they are young. You will be happy to hear about the behavior of their childhood when they grow older. Not only children are tempered by hearing what they have said and done, but they are unconsciously recognized by the fact that you took as a parent to write the time that these important moments so they are used at a later date.
4. Show ChildrenPictures of shares, as the animals in the wild. This is especially good for children with autism, who often respond better to visual images then spoken on the floor.
5. Have family meetings on the agenda when it is time for each family member can do something of significance that for them during the week, shares happened.
6. Have your own personal family Ex-Factor, where every child at the center (no judge can go). A child can recite a poem that can sing another, whilePlaying guitar can be, another magic trick, or a boy to show their new arithmetic shares solving skills.
7. Make up a family rule that when children are fighting over a toy or possession of the family, the toy is made, a way to divide up the couple to prove they can, and that is how they can earn it back. (Make sure it's age).
We want to tell you about Owen, a baby hippopotamus that survived the tsunami waves on the Kenyan coast, where wildlife rangers rescued him is. Owenformed a strong bond with a giant male tortoise named Mzee, which is 130 years old. They met in an animal facility. Owen weighs about 300 kg (650 pounds) and Mzee seems very happy with being a father figure to an ecologist Paula Kahumbu, head of Lafarge Park. Share: up their food, a place to sleep, walk, seen the coolness of the muddy water on a hot day, eye contact and tenderness, especially in their cuddling, nudging and. Gluing
(a must see video: Click on Owen and Mzee music video here) http://www.owenandmzee.com/omweb/flash/mediacenter/mediacenter.html
Finally, if you have trouble with a child or an alienated youth, and you feel lost, like new link, you will find the place in your own being, where you really get to promote with the greatest love, the wounded relationship. This might mean to say very little for the time and bring a small gift that you know that theylike, or invite them to something they enjoy to do. You can think about one of their interests, or anything positive you noticed, or they do not know in a way judgmental. If they do not react the first time, do not give up, how you want to improve relations. Eventually, you'll be able to replace it in the arena, where they remember how they love you. "Love has to find a way when you need it most." If you can have the warm and strong feelings on both sidesthe relationship, it is so easy to break those barriers and share what makes sense to share it. It is a feeling of light around you.
Anam Cara by John O'Donohue is a book that addresses Celtic wisdom. It is a book that is both poetic, spiritual and philosophical. If O'Donohue talks about friendship, he talks about the "candle-light world of the soul." He says: "Maybe the light of the soul is like the light that Rembrandt tawny, golden light on Rembrandt's work is known.This light gives it a real sense of depth and substance of the numbers on which they seem gentle. "(P.25) This is such a nice thought. You can often feel that, if you shine a moment to experience, sharing with someone you love. But it's up to you to create this feeling of lighting .
Mr. and Mrs. Hornbill probably not thinking about what kind of light they need to share their food. They are just hungry and have to fed that they can keep and augment itsSpecies live in the world. Sometimes that's all what we are able to do as human beings. Our goal is do you keep motivated to see your existence beyond simple awareness and open yourself and your children the opportunity, your most unique, meaningful and creative life, through sharing and understanding and knowledge about birds fed expanded, reptiles, animals and peoples of the world.
Dr Angel Adams and Dr. Patricia Papciak
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