The parents are the most important role model in the lives of their children, and it is important that they respect the example set by themselves, their children and for everyone else. Children are like a mirror, because it gives us back much of what we say, to reflect and do. 95% of children have learned from everything that is through, what they have learned model, with only 5% through direct instruction. What do we communicate what we teach our language is the language that theyspeak.
Respect can permeate into all areas, including: respect for ourselves, respect for our loved ones, respect for our neighbors, our employees and all those who think differently than we do. This is obviously not easy to make. How can we treat the idea with mindfulness so that we do not allow stray from the importance of others, their feelings about things in the same way that we want to be respected for our personal ideas?
According to the dictionary Respectmeans "willingness to respectful consideration, appreciation and keep showing great appreciation for a different opinion, wishes and opinion." How do you think highly of someone if you do not rely on their values and the way they live their lives.
If you treat a person with respect, recognize and preserve their human dignity. Are you maintaining the values that you hold as most important? Be patient with yourself when you make mistakes? Are you ready to admit you made a mistakeIf you are impatient and say things to disturb the others? Can you open your child that your goal and the goal that you set for him / her is the best person you can be at any time. Although most of us to deal with the problems that can arise in our daily lives, there is always a day when things feel out of control. The best thing you can do is take a little time to reassess. Do you remember what you have to be thankful for. Remind your children what they need toRemember to thank, too.
One of the most important ways to treat themselves and others respectfully is take the time to answer difficult questions. When your children ask you about terrible things in the news, or why the people in a way, the answer to what you teach them will behave normally happen, as you can in a respectful manner? No matter how strong you are about something, it is important to respond with an open mind. One could answer the question with somelike, "I wonder what this person might have been the spirit that he so little." In other words, they leave open the possibility for the discussion to consider how people make their decisions. This way you are respecting yourself and think of the way, but you also let your children that there is always more than one way of looking at something.
Another problem with children is when they ask you if they can do something that you know, they do not want to do. Take adeep breath and tell your child, "Let me join?" I am a little tired and rushed at the moment and I want to think about if there is a way we can work for you. " Even if in your heart know that you are going to reject the request, maybe there is a way of solving problems on alternative ways to produce a healthy way to think of their applications together. Perhaps your child will think of more time to enjoy, on the request, and he / she will see that there may be a littleunreasonable. The fact that some time for reflection and consideration you show your child that you will be respected about his thoughts and feelings.
At this point in history, it seems that one of the hardest things to respect people of other ethnicities and religions. How do you teach your children to respect others, as they not? Sometimes, when we see historical films, we can see that have been throughout history, people always cruel to each other, irreverent eachothers because of their race or religion or class.
A poem about the respect of us comes from Rene Philombe, a political and cultural activist from Cameroon, who died in 2001. The poem is originally in French and in his book L'homme qui te resemble that of the man who is as you say. In this poem he called all his brethren, and calls not asked his nationality or his skin color, because he is human like everybody else. He does not ask to ask his physical characteristics, or especially the "name,his gods. "Students who learn this poem in French, even for a moment seized by this line. What does he mean do not ask me the name of my gods. We all have different views, but we all having the same needs things. We are similar because we all want it to be warm and well fed and loved. What we are outside of our physical being, everything is felt in an effort to make the world believe. To think that whatever comfort They allow, and all else that comforts them to believe. This is not aeasy task for the young, the educated belief in a religion. It does not mean you should see the way you or ask you to change your children what they have learned to change, but it will ask you to respect others and know that they have learned different things.
The best way to teach in relation to our children is to show respect. When our children experience respect, they know how it feels, and begin to understand how it can change lives. Respect is a way of living.His respect helps a child to be more successful in school and paving the way for more success in adult life at work and in marriage.
To summarize and remind you about ways to be respectful to your child. Consider these 7 tips:
1. Take time to listen to your child. Listen carefully and thoughtfully. Think carefully about what your child wants and needs before you answer.
2. Remember that you win for your child by the will to be honest. Always the answer to yourChild as honestly as you can. If this means that you can wait before taking answer, do your time.
3. Be willing to apologize when you talk about hard or too fast because you are busy or tired. It is important for your child that you as someone who is genuinely interested in respect.
4. Marvel According to the ideas and concepts that you value, so that your child will not be surprised if he / she ceases to support your decisions with this information.
5. Love your child, by respectfullyhonestly and fairly.
6. Hold them responsible for their behavior.
7. You can not possibly be able to control or take your child (especially if a young person) in respect of their attitude, but no compromise in anticipation of that respect back to you, to show it by their behavior.
Although this very old poem, we recommend that you take the time to read "IF" by Rudyard Kipling with your child. It is written in simple language and most children can relate the ideas.Also, make the rhythm of it and the rhyming lines is easy to remember. If children are often hurt by their friends or feel bad when they lose something. This is a good poem to help them remember how to stay on course. The qualities that are written in this poem: patience is humility, honesty and prudence, qualities that are important to children.You can teach our own, this poem by a young adults in the Reading and Listening: http://www.youtube . com / watch? v = FOy8rneWlrs
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